When Should I Tell Them I Have a Kid?

I really like this woman that I just started dating but I don’t want to scare her off.


Q: How do you find the right time when seeing someone new to mention that you have a child? I really like this woman that I just started dating but I don’t want to scare her off.

A: I may be on the bold side but I believe in telling someone that I am seeing up front that I am a package deal. Granted, they will not meet my child for what may feel like a lifetime but I would rather start off knowing that this person sees my child as a strength, not a weakness, as a bonus, not baggage.

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